The Importance of Asking “Why” in Goal Setting
The Importance of Asking “Why” in Goal Setting
Goal-oriented individuals often encounter the common challenge of losing motivation or interest shortly after setting a goal. Or perhaps you achieved your goal but felt unfulfilled or unsatisfied with the outcome?
If so, it’s possible that you didn’t spend enough time considering the “why” behind your goal.
Why is it important to know the why behind your goals?
Asking “why” is a crucial step in the goal-setting process. It helps you connect with your values, motivations, and deeper purpose. Without a clear understanding of why you’re pursuing a particular goal, it’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture and become bogged down by the day-to-day grind.
Consider the following scenario: You set a goal to lose 20 pounds in three months. At first, you’re motivated and focused. You create a workout plan, start eating healthier, and track your progress. But as time goes on, you find it harder and harder to stick to your routine. You skip a workout here and there, indulge in a few too many cheat meals, and eventually give up altogether.
Now consider another scenario: You set a goal to lose 20 pounds in three months because you want to improve your overall health and feel more confident in your body. You remind yourself of this deeper motivation every time you feel tempted to skip a workout or indulge in unhealthy food. You create a support system of friends and family who encourage and motivate you. And when you reach your goal, you feel not only physically healthier but also more confident and empowered.
The difference between these two scenarios is the clarity and depth of the “why” behind the goal. In the second scenario, the goal is connected to a deeper sense of purpose and motivation. This helps you stay committed and focused even when the going gets tough.
So, if you’re struggling with goal setting or finding it hard to stay motivated, consider taking some time to reflect on the “why” behind your goals. Ask yourself questions like:
Why is this goal important to me?
What deeper purpose or motivation does this goal serve?
How will achieving this goal impact my life and the lives of those around me?
The importance of your why
Once you have a clear understanding of the “why” behind your goals, you can create a plan of action that is aligned with your values and motivations. And when you face obstacles or setbacks, you can remind yourself of your deeper purpose and stay focused on the bigger picture.
In conclusion, asking “why” is a crucial step in the goal-setting process. It helps you connect with your values, motivations, and deeper purpose. So, the next time you set a goal, take the time to reflect on the “why” behind it. You may find that this simple but powerful question can make all the difference in achieving your goals and finding fulfillment and satisfaction in the process.
What is the next step to consider with choosing your Why
Take a moment to reflect on a recent goal you set for yourself. Ask yourself why this goal is important to you and how it connects to your values and motivations. Use this deeper understanding to create a plan of action that is aligned with your purpose and stay motivated and focused even when faced with obstacles.
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Karen Baughan is an NLP Master Practitioner based in Bromsgrove, UK. Having used NLP to affect her own personal transformation, she now helps clients, from around the world, to transform their lives and achieve their dreams.